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	<title>Bret Phillips &#187; selfish people</title>
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		<title>Some People right?</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[Today I had two meetings in the first half of my day. One with a client that I&#8217;ve done some web development for, and one for an hour long swim lesson I was going to teach to two people. I like to give back to my fellow man and teaching people a skill that will [...]]]></description>
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<p></p><p>Today I had two meetings in the first half of my day. One with a client that I&#8217;ve done some web development for, and one for an hour long swim lesson I was going to teach to two people.</p>
<p><img class="alignleft size-medium  wp-image-426" style="margin-left: 10px; margin-right: 10px;" title="drowning " src="http://bretphillips.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/06/drowning2-300x273.jpg" alt="drowning " width="300" height="273" />I like to give back to my fellow man and teaching people a skill that will help them survive and also <strong>increase their fun level by millions</strong> really feels good.</p>
<p>After my first appointment, I called my second appointment, the swimming lessons. We spoke and I told them I would be there in <strong>20</strong> minutes.</p>
<p><strong>20</strong> minutes later I arrived at the location, an apartment complex with a pool(which by the way is a great place to start learning).  Most of the time these pools are shallow from end to end so a new swimmer can always just &#8216;stand up&#8217; if they get scared.</p>
<p>Anyways, I arrive at <strong>12pm</strong> as we had agreed upon and I gave them a call. Got the voice mail.</p>
<p><strong>12:10 </strong>rolls around, I give them another call. Still the voice mail.</p>
<p><strong>12:20</strong> is coming up and I call again. Still no answer and I leave a voice mail.</p>
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<p>Shortly after I get a call back.  They are less than 2 minutes away and will be there asap. I can go through the leasing office and into the pool area&#8230;which I do.</p>
<p>After changing, I grab the kick boards and head to the water. They are still not there so I just get in and start swimming some laps.</p>
<p><strong>12:30</strong> and still nothing. Just me and a small family hanging out in the pool. <em>I continue swimming laps.</em></p>
<p><strong>12:35</strong> I check and still no call back, no sign of them.<em> So I swim some more laps.</em></p>
<p>Ah ha! It looks like two people that could be my people. Sweet, <strong>40 minutes late</strong> but at least there are here, we can get started.</p>
<p>I will teach them how to swim, a skill everyone should have for safety and fun! In exchange they will pay me in money.</p>
<p>They walk down to the pool area, one in a bathing suit ready to rock, the other in shorts and a t-shirt. I ask them if it was in fact them and they agreed.</p>
<p>Jokingly, and I said something like &#8220;well great, I&#8217;m glad you are here, hop on in because we only have like 20 minutes right?&#8221;</p>
<p><strong>1</strong> hour long lesson, we agree to meet at <strong>12pm</strong>, I arrive at <strong>12pm</strong>, they arrive at <strong>12:40pm</strong>&#8230;the math is in there.</p>
<p>Anyway, the person I had been speaking to went back to their car for a second to &#8216;get something&#8217;.  <em>I continue swimming laps. </em></p>
<p>I swim away, swim back, swim away, and on my way back this time, I notice both of them are <span style="font-size: large;">back in their car driving away!</span></p>
<p><span style="font-size: x-large;">Staring right at me!</span></p>
<p>I swam back to my stuff and gave them a call then left them a message to the tune of  &#8220;I appologize for wasting your time. Please give me a call if and when you are actually serious about learning to swim, have a good day.&#8221;</p>
<p>Sure I was stewing but I would have felt like an idiot if I had &#8216;gone off&#8217; on them for being the kind of people they are.  It wouldn&#8217;t have changed them so I saved my breath and kept it professional.</p>
<p>My first mistake was not having them pay me before I drove out there.  The location is really far from where I live, but was fairly close to where my first appointment was at. I can easily accept online payments, even from credit cards, so there is no reason that I should have not been paid for my hours of waiting around at that pool.</p>
<p>Anyway, like I was saying&#8230;.Some People right?</p>
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